Monday, March 22, 2010

Unit 7: Asciepius Exercise

For this weeks exercise, I choose to focus on my mother. She is a very important person in my life and does so much for others. I aspire to be like her because no matter what someone has done to her, she forgives them and does not dwell on it. Her favorite saying is "Life is too short to stay mad at someone". I, myself have a harder time forgiving someone who has hurt me. I am stubborn so if a person does something bad enough to me I will not talk to them again until the apologize. If they do not apologize I may never acknowledge them again. I realize that sometimes you have to be a bigger person, however, I also know that there are people you should not waste your time on. Some people do not deserve to be a part of your life.

I really enjoyed the Asciepius exercise because it allowed me to focus on the qualities of my mother. Although I got emotional, her healing attributes became my focus and by the end of the exercise, a loving presence emanated through my body.

Just like exercise helps improve mood by relieving stress and anxiety, I have come to realize that practices such as positive thinking, loving-kindness, meditation, reiki and sound therapy offer the same benefits. I have incorporated many of these exercise into my life and my energy level has increased and I feel healthier and happier.

In my opinion the saying, "One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself" simply means that if your looking to alter certain areas of life, the best way to do so is by seeking advice from a trained health professional who has gone through similar challenges. It's important that the person helping you, understands how you feel and knows what steps you can take to overcome the obstacles standing in the way of your happiness. Anyone can go to school and learn cognitive psychology but the best type of therapists are those who have an innate ability to heal others- they genuinely understand your pain and know how to properly guide you in the right direction.

1 comment:

  1. I think it is great to focus on someone we love who has been there for us.

    It may not be a mom or dad but a brother or a bestfriend.

    I sometimes forget that my mom has sacraficed a lot for me. Its always nice to feel appreciated. Lately, i have been reminding her that i appreciate her.

    :)

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